Pamela F. "Pam" Quarles

Pamela F. "Pam" Quarles obituary, Cedar Lake, IN

Pamela F. "Pam" Quarles

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Pamela Quarles Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Burdan Funeral Home and Crematory on Oct. 28, 2025.

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Pamela Quarles (nee: Adkins) was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and friend whose kindness and faith impacted many.
Born on July 14, 1944, in Omaha, Nebraska, she grew up in Downers Grove, Illinois, where she attended Downers Grove Community High School and later continued her education at the College of DuPage.
Pam built a life rooted in love, family, and community. She was the devoted wife of Martin Quarles, and together they shared a blended and loving family. Pam was the cherished mother of Margaret (wife of Jeff Peskuski), Brett, Brian, and Cory Willis (husband of Henny), and stepmother to Martin's sons, Brian and Kevin. She was the proud grandmother of Jacob and Joshua Peskuski, Emersyn Willis, Brianna, Kiara, Ginny and Noah Quarles. Preceded in death by her parents and son Scott.
A true nurturer at heart, Pam was known for her warmth, generosity, and remarkable talent in the kitchen and home decorating. Her home was always filled with the comforting aroma of her cooking and the laughter of family and friends gathered around the table.
Pam's faith was a central influence in her life. She participated actively in her church and regularly attended her Bible study group, where she developed lasting relationships built on shared values and mutual support.
Emma, her loyal dog, was always by Pam's side and showed her deep love for animals, especially dogs. Those who knew Pam will remember her compassion, her quick smile, and her unwavering kindness.
Pamela Quarles leaves a legacy built on love, faith, and family. Her kindness will keep inspiring everyone fortunate enough to have known her.
"She lived her faith, shared her joy, and filled every room with warmth. Her love will remain forever in our hearts."
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Nov

9

Celebration of Life

12:30 p.m.

Lighthouse Church

13419 Parrish Ave, Cedar Lake 13419

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