James Laurilla Obituary

UNICOI - James "Jim" Lee Laurilla, 88, of Unicoi, TN passed away peacefully on July 12, 2023, at Lakebridge Skilled Nursing Facility after suffering from dementia for several years. Amedisys Hospice provided loving care in his passing.

Jim came into the world on June 4, 1935, as summer and mosquitos welcomed him to Northern Minnesota. Little did he know that a few months later he would be in the land that boasted some of the coldest temperatures in America, a claim that he took great pride in bragging about to his family and friends.

Jim was the oldest child of Carl and Aune "Esther" (Konu) Laurilla, the big brother of sisters Kay (Gary Eiden) and Sally (Wendel Gilbert). He adored his extended Finnish family in northern Minnesota, and loved his small town of Bigfork for all of the opportunities it gave to him. It was the decision to join the Air Force at the age of 17 that really changed the trajectory of his life. His time in Okinawa, Japan as a radio operator was formative and offered him the chance to see the world and to go to college with the GI Bill. In college, he also met his future bride, Sandy (Rengel) Laurilla who would be the person who gave his life wings. With Sandy he would raise three great kids, Eric, Shelley (Brian O'Malley) and Kristen (JP Aragon) spending most of his career living in Springfield, Virginia and commuting to DC working for FDIC as a Personnel Management Specialist.

Jim came from a lot of love but very little materially (no running water nor indoor plumbing), so he knew what was important even when he had more to offer his own family. He loved spending weekends at Lake Anna camping, fishing, and boating with the family. He taught his kids to fish, garden and to build things. He also showed them how to appreciate the earth and to respect people who put in an honest day's work. Civil rights were not just words to Jim, they were the cornerstone of who he was. In retirement, Jim and Sandy made their home in Unicoi, TN, had great road trip adventures, and enjoyed winters in New Port Richey, FL where they enjoyed time with old and new friends alike. Jim credited Sandy, his faith, and the AA and Al-Anon programs for his 43 years of sobriety. It gave him the opportunity to joyfully be present in the lives of those he loved and set a wonderful example for others of how to believe in themselves and to persevere, even when things were difficult.

Jim is preceded in death by his parents, sisters, and his son Eric. He is survived by his loving wife Sandy, his daughters and their husbands, along with his wonderful grandchildren Shannon, Lauren (Jared Stephenson), Luke (Shelley), and Natalie and Camden (Kristen).

The family of Jim Laurilla will receive friends from 9:30am until 11:00am on Tuesday, August 1, 2023, at St Mary's Catholic Church (2211 E Lakeview Drive, Johnson City, TN). The viewing will be followed by a funeral Mass at 11:00am, officiated by Fr. Dustin Collins. Light refreshments will follow after the service at the church. There will be a committal service the following day, at 2:00pm on Wednesday, August 2, at Mountain Home National Cemetery (Historic). Please meet at the cemetery by 1:50pm.

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Morris-Baker Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 2001 E Oakland Ave, Johnson City, Tennessee, is honored to serve the Laurilla family. (423) 282-1521