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1991
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2024
Cari Coates Obituary
December 2, 1991 -
October 25, 2024
The voice of an angel unexpectedly went home to sing with her heavenly choir on October 25, 2024. Cari Susan (Kiser) Coates brought music and laughter to everyone around her. Although her song on Earth has ended, it continues in the hearts of all who knew her. Cari was a light, a friend, and a force of love who made the world a brighter, kinder place.
Born with a voice and a heart that touched everyone around her, Cari found her first stage at Daniel Boone High School. There, she shined both on the soccer field and in the women's choir. Cari brought laughter to everyone around her and truly connected with all she encountered- even winning the title of Homecoming Queen her senior year. Her love of singing led her on a musical journey where she won the local Voice competition, started a band that quickly became well-known locally, and even recorded a song that she wrote in her time in Alaska.
Cari was a beloved partner to her devoted wife, Jessica, with whom she shared a life filled with laughter, adventure, and unconditional love. She was also an adored daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. She leaves behind Jess, a loving family, and many friends who will forever hold her close in their memories.
Cari's love of animals was a constant throughout her life, beginning with a passion for horseback riding that started at a young age. She felt a special bond with horses, and as she grew, that love expanded to include cows and her cherished dogs, who were as much a part of her family as anyone else. Whether she was out for a trail ride, caring for her animals, or relaxing on the water, Cari found true joy in every aspect of life.
Though her time with us was far too brief, Cari's impact will continue to echo through the countless lives she touched with her kindness, laughter, and infectious energy. Her presence could turn even an ordinary day into something special, and her captivating soul and warmth made the world a little brighter for everyone lucky enough to know her. Though she may no longer be with us, her spirit will continue to light our lives and remind us to cherish each moment, as she always did.
A Celebration of Life will be held at Grace Meadows Church, 162 John France Rd in Jonesborough, TN, on Sunday, November 10, at 3:45 PM. In lieu of flowers, Donations are appreciated to the Appalachian Service Project for those effected by Hurricane Helene as well as Washington County Animal Shelter, in reflection of Cari's selflessness and giving heart.
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Memories and Condolences
for Cari Coates
Bethany
July 25, 2025
It's been 8 months since you've passed and I'm just now hearing of it. I know I moved away but I'm still in shock. I'm so torn. You were such an amazing spirit. I am so grateful to have know you. You had your whole life ahead of you! I know you would have become a famous singer! Your voice was angelic! Hopefully you're continuing to sing even up there now! I love you sweet girl
Mike Gendreau
November 13, 2024
Met her here in North Pole Alaska. She worked at a restaurant across the street. Got to know her some and immediately realized what a special person she was. She was well liked by all up here and she will be sadly missed. Sincere condolences to all her family members and may she rest in peace.
JerryandAndra Coates
November 7, 2024
She will be greatly missed by her parents and family and although we didn't know her personally we knew Jessica's family . Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone during this time. Jerry and AndraCoates
Bo Bowman
November 7, 2024
Kerry, Charlotte n family. So many things we did as kids? And young adults and into the 60's, 70's, 80's, 90's and beyond!! Can't say I know how you feel, because I don't. Can only imagine the grief you are going through. Although we don't see each other as much or as often throughout the years I still love y'all. May God enjoy the greatest gift you could ever give him, the heart, soul and mind of a "child", just as he gave his only son!
Shelia Fleming Hamm
November 6, 2024
So sorry for your loss, heaven will gain an angel.
Becky@ Tailwind
November 5, 2024
Gonna miss our funny,short conversations about our crazy,wild weekends we shared. Fly high sweet gal. The angels gonna love you in their heavenly band.
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November 5, 2024
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Phil Alley
November 5, 2024
Such a sweet spirit gone too soon
Monica Randy and Shelby Rolen
November 5, 2024
We are sorry for.your loss and continued Prayers for comfort for Jess and the entire family. Cari was a great person whom will be missed greatly by everyone.
Melissa Falin
November 5, 2024
Cari, you were such a sweet precious soul. you are so loved by so many people and will be very dearly missed.
Amyra
November 5, 2024
I am so very sorry for your loss family
Jane Gammon
November 5, 2024
Sending you and the family love and prayers for peace, comfort and strength.
Connie Graff
November 4, 2024
May her love, joy, and beautiful light live on in our hearts. I feel deep sadness for all Cari´s love ones.
Lynn Wagner
November 4, 2024
I am so very sorry for your loss
Jon
November 4, 2024
I'm sorry for your loss. I never had the chance to meet her, but I know Jess loved her with all her heart. And I know she will be deeply missed.
Lisa Greene
November 4, 2024
Cari Susan and my daughters grew up together in the youth group at Boone Trail Baptist Church and went on to attend high school together. Cari was so full of life. She was always happy, laughing, acting silly and making everyone around her happy. Her laughter was contagious. We are heart broken at her loss and are praying for her mother and father and her siblings as well as Jessica. Rest in peace Cari Susan. The family of Jessica and Abbi Greene.
Lisa Tunnell
November 4, 2024
Cari was so much and then some. She was always laughing and cutting up with all her friends, and pretty much everyone she met. She loved life and was taken way to soon. You are going to be missed and loved always sister. The Shack won't be the same on Monday nights. Fly high kiddo. Im so glad I got to meet you and Jess. I'm so glad I got to hear your beautiful voice when you sang. Love and prayers to Jess and your family's.
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