Rexalee Kaye Ireland passed away on her own terms, peacefully at home on March 4, 2026, at the age of 82.
She was born on Oct. 25, 1943, to Marion (Lockman) and Arnold Shafer in Oronoko Township, Mich.
Rexalee was welcomed home by loved ones who went before her. Her husband of 48 years, David John Ireland; her son, Arnie and grandson, Alex, who were surely among the first to greet her along with her sweet Brownie.
She leaves behind the family she cherished her children: James (Robin) Ireland and Tina (Jason) DelBosque. Her grandchildren: Amy (Daniel) Buckhannon, Amanda (Duane) Below, Steven (Kylie) Ireland, Andrew (Amy) Cox, Austin (Autumn) Cox and Jake Cox. Her great-grandchildren: Audrey, Gavin, Scarlett, Olivia, Carter and Axel. She also leaves behind her loving sisters: Vicki (late James Hauch) and Laura (Elmer) Copeland, as well as many nieces and nephews, great-nieces and nephews who all held a special place in her heart.
In keeping with Rexalee's wishes, cremation is taking place. Palmer Funeral Home – Hoven Chapel is assisting the family.
A celebration of life will be held by the family on Saturday, March 28, at the New Troy American Legion, 4789 Weechik Road, New Troy. The service starts at 2 p.m. with a visitation one hour prior.
If you would like to leave online condolences for Rexalee and her family, please visit www.palmerfuneralhome.com.
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Gloria A. Neidlinger
March 18, 2026
Rexalee was a very sweet lady who always had a smile for everyone. While I didn't know her closely,mostly in passing when our children were in grade school. Rexalee always had a sweetness to her always reflected from her beautiful smile. My heartfelt prayers for Tina and James and their families. May the legacy of love and memories your Mother and Grandmother left for each of you bring smiles to your hearts...
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