Pamela Swenk, 70, of Three Oaks died peacefully Monday, Feb. 9, 2026, surrounded by her daughter, Liz and beloved dog, Jackman.
She was born on Sept. 24, 1955, at Fort Bragg, N.C., the eldest of two children born to Bill and Terry Delling. Pam graduated from Western Michigan University and later settled in Grand Rapids, Mich., where she met and married the love of her life, Kirk, on Dec. 5, 1987. After 37 years of marriage he preceded her in death.
Pam was a force to be reckoned with in all aspects of her life. An organizer, a leader and always a generous supporter in everything she did.
Pam will be greatly missed by family, friends and colleagues. She is survived by her cherished daughter and son-in-law: Liz and Jeff Huebner of Three Oaks; brother and sister-in-law: Chris and Connie Delling and nephews: Brian and Patrick Delling.
She was preceded in death by her parents.
The family will observe a private remembrance.
The family prefers contributions in memory of Pam to be made to several organizations. For more information, please contact Liz at [email protected].
Arrangements have been entrusted to Wagner Family Funerals Pobocik Chapel, Three Oaks. Please share a memory or a message online: wagnercares.com.
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Krista Asteriadis Byers
February 24, 2026
Pam was a force to be reckoned with - an amazing storyteller, a wonderful mentor, a mother with fierce love for her daughter, and my friend. The world seems somehow... less without Pam. Sending my love and a gentle hug to her daughter, Liz.
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